After dating for five years, my husband and I got married on July 15th, 2011. We felt this was the next step for our relationship and the first step in starting our family. We both want to have a big family so we tried to get pregnant for the 6 months after we got married. Honestly, by mid December, I resigned myself to the notion that it was not going to be easy for us. So, I decided that I had to just "let go". I figured we would get home to LA (we were in Cincy at the time), get settled into our new home, I'd finish filming "Wipeout," and THEN we could re-visit babyhood. To help us both relax and unwind, Nick and I decided that we'd go away on our first big Lachey family trip. We all decided on the Bahamas, somewhere warm, sunny and relaxing.
But, before we could relax and soak in the sun, I had to film a January 5th appearance on "Live with Kelly" and would meet everyone in the Bahamas the next day. I had an absolute blast filming the show, as always. Rob Lowe was Kelly's co-host that day and I remember buying his book in the airport so I could study up! I even was up for the Zumba presentation, in my stilettos no less! The studio kept trying to give me sneakers to wear, and I thought … I can dance in these things! HA! That night I took my girlfriend out to dinner for her birthday. We went to ABC Kitchen, which I LOVE!!! That evening I remember that I wanted absolutely everything on the menu! I also remember NOT wanting my martini … After dinner something in my gut said, "Let's go back to my hotel… and pick up a pregnancy test on the way!" Call it a mother's intuition --- IT WAS POSITIVE! I was in absolute shock !! I had taken a pregnancy test multiple times every month over the past 6 months, but this one (and the nine others I took that night) was positive. It was such a beautiful moment. The only thing missing was my husband, of course. But Nick was already in the Bahamas with the whole family waiting for me. I knew I had to wait to tell him in person. I wanted to look into his eyes when I said:"I'm pregnant." I wanted to feel his hug when he grabbed me with excitement. I wanted to take in the surroundings so that I would always remember the exact moment I told him he was going to be a father.

That night was the longest night I can remember in awhile. The next day I got on a plane to the Bahamas, connected thru Miami, then drove to our house… this all seemed like an absolute eternity! Once I finally got there, I could barely contain myself. But I knew that I made it this far, I didn't want to just blurt it out in front of everyone. Once I was settled, I changed into my beach clothes and asked Nick if he wanted to go for a walk on the beach. All I kept thinking about was this little life inside of me, that WE made. He was growing, and we were going to become a family. At that I moment everything in me felt so right. I was bursting with emotion and wanting to tell Nick the good news. I was also so nervous because I have thought about this moment my whole life. I took a deep breath, grabbed his hands, looked him in the eyes and told him "I'M PREGNANT!!!!" He looked at me and asked if I was serious. I said yes, we hugged, and then he said, "I think I have to sit down!" That was January 6th, 2012.

One year later to the exact day, Nick and I revisited the same place where I told him we were going to be a family. This time, we brought Camden. It was the perfect sunset, we took the stroller on the beach and walked down to the same exact spot. We will always have that memory together, and now, Cam will have one, too. I took this video that I will embarrass him with in the future, and I'm happy to share a piece of it with you. To everyone that has constantly shown my family love and support, I Thank You! And can't wait to share some more of our adventures!
Lachey Family Beach Visit (short version)
I hope you all enjoyed hearing about this special day for Nick and our family. Did any of you do anything special to announce your pregnancy to your partner? I'd love to hear!
Xx, Vanessa
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This is a beautiful story, thank you for sharing! Like you and Nick my husband and I were trying for months, however we had the notion that it would happen quickly (after all, it happened on the first try for my mother and genetics would be on my side, right? Wrong) Every month I took a pregnancy test and every month it was negative, which just broke my heart in to pieces. Finally I told my husband that I didn't want to see, hear, or talk about anything baby because I couldn't take the stress of the let down (that was in January 2011). At the end of the next month I had to see my husband off to Iraq and just figured that we would start again when he got home. I went back to NY to stay with my family for the months he was gone and began to notice that I was becoming nauseated at the sight or thought of certain foods, which is especially odd for me. Finally, at the end of March my sister-in-law convinced me to take a pregnancy test and much to my surprise it said pregnant! Of course, being 6,000 miles and 7 hours ahead, it was the middle of the night for my husband. All I could do was send him an email with the lyrics to "In A Real Love" by Phil Vassar and a picture of the E.P.T and wait...... Hours later I finally got a phone call from a man I had only ever seen cry once, fighting back tears and more excited than a kid on Christmas. Now we have a beautiful 17 month old little boy who is still a miracle to me.
Sorry for the long story, yours just inspired me to share mine. No one really knows that story except for a handful of people and my pregnancy journal. Sending you and your family much love and well wishes for a lifetime of happiness and memories! -
this made me burst with tears with joy . i love u and your family , NICK LACHEY has been my favorite fan since i was a little girl i would always watch 98 degrees . your little boy is so cute and your a great mother to nick's baby i love u for that . peace and happiness with you and your little family :)) -
We had just moved to Texas from California. I had eaten pizza that night, and was throwing up all night. I KNEW I was pregnant. Just to make sure I went and bought a few test, all came out positive. I took a picture of the test and text it to him....he thought it was someone else's. we were both in shock. We have 2 boys and they are six yrs apart. I'd had trouble getting pregnant before, and so this was a shocker because we're were done having babies. (lol). But on Oct.29, 2012 one of my biggest dreams came true....WE HAD A GIRL!!!! -
How exciting that must have been for you! Thank you for sharing such a personal moment with us. -
aww thats lovely of a new family of yours and its very beautiful beach for your new family to be relaxing and enjoy your break-vacation !! aww thats good memories of heart with your cute son s birthdte picture when he grew up to be older when he will see the good memories of the picture of family when he will remember you and dad in his life !! -
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Nick is a lucky man! What a beautiful wife and mother you are. Thanks for sharing your story! Your family is just darling, and you two are simply stunning together. You radiate happiness, and so does he. All the best! -
U have such a beautiful family!!!Nick all ways been the best singer .And now he has a beautiful wife and baby so happy for u guys!!! -
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This is beautiful. I'm so excited to follow your website. I hope that soon I'll be able to tell my husband this same news. We have been trying for 2 years and are currently in the middle of our 7th IVF cycle! I'm so happy for you and Nick. Congratulations on a beautiful family. You two deserve nothing but the best. God Bless! -
A beach is a wonderful resource for romance and announcements or proposals. Similar to your coastline memory, I prepared my husband for our arrival with a black and white photo greeting card that depicted a nude baby crawling across a wet sandy beach... inside the card I composed this note: "You pick the beach and I'll bring the black and white film, and we'll mimic this photo a year from now. Happy Father's Day. Love Always, your pregnant wife." -
Vanessa! Love the website! I love the family pics and video..so sweet!! (p.s. I have no idea how to upload a pic to my profile!) -
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Thank you for sharing such a beautiful story! So sweet :) Sending you and your family lots of love and lights xxx -
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